Days following my Big Chop
Many of us are afraid because we don't know. We don't know what our hair will look like, how "WE" will look attached to our natural hair, or how others will respond to this hair that is attached to our heads. But I'm hear to tell you that the accomplishment and the freedom you will feel after you decide to big chop or wear your hair 100% natural will completely wash away all of those fears.
Last week was so awesome I did 3 big chops.. count em, 1..2.3 in one week! (on 2 sisters, and a friend.) They all had different reasons why they wanted to do the Big chop, and go natural. They all were a little anxious, or nervous about it, but soon after ended up being in awe, and actually liking their newly chopped heads! Here's what they had to say below...
My Sister Lasharus....She transitioned for 1 year
"I typically wear a lot of wigs, so I wasn’t really relaxing my hair or found it necessary. So I decided why not go ahead and try to go natural. When it was time to chop it off I wasn’t really afraid to do it because I plan to wear my wigs during the growth journey. I think it’s the best of both worlds! My long term goal is to see how long I can grow my natural hair!"
Sis N Law Jackie..she transitioned for about 19 mos
"I wasn't so sure about going natural in the beginning, because I didn't know what my hair was going to look like. My hair is baby fine, and I knew relaxers weren't good for it. I would see my Sis n law Chan's hair, and knew I liked it, but didn't know about it for my self. I eventually just stop perming it, and that went on for almost 2 years. I was really afraid to chop it because I'm accustom to wearing my hair one way, back in a bun or ponytail. And with doing the BC, I figured I may not be able to do that. I stalled for a while, when I finally got enough encourage, I was glad I did it. I'm loving my new curls and I started wearing my TWA out the same day!, and I'm still wearing it.. I love it!"
My Friend V. She transitioned for 3 Mos.
"The reason I decided to big chop is because once I decided to go natural the premed hair over my new growth or natural hair was beginning to become a nuisance, so the big chop sooner than later was the only option for me. I wasn't sure about it at first because I had quite a bit of hair and I enjoyed my ponytails! But now that it's done I feel completely liberated and I'm excited about my natural hair journey!"
* All of these women were attached to relaxed hair, and or wigs. Neither of them thought they could ever chop off their relaxed hair to go natural, but they did. (And their hair turned out beautiful). So see, there's nothing to be afraid of, according to the bible, we are all wonderful and fearfully made! So embrace God's wonderful creation, and that would be you and your hair! So, if big chopping is really what you want to do, I'm here to say that you can, and 9 times out of 10 you'll look great!
Until Next Time.. Keep It Healthy and Happy!